When your dream home comes with a nightmare HOA.
- Nicole Reeves
- May 13
- 1 min read
They say homeownership is the American dream — but no one warned me that the nightmare would come wrapped in the form of my HOA.
I created Home Sweet Headache because I was tired of the silence. Tired of the fines. Tired of the threats. Tired of feeling like a prisoner in a house I worked hard to afford — all because of a group of people who were never elected properly and who now operate without oversight or accountability.
Why This Blog Exists
My story started with a simple question about the HOA budget — a reasonable request. Instead of answers, I got resistance, retaliation, and a front-row seat to how power corrupts even the smallest of kingdoms.
But this isn’t just about me. It’s about all of us:
Homeowners who are gaslit, ignored, and overcharged
Families afraid to speak up
Residents buried under red tape and unexplained fines
People punished for asking questions
What You’ll Find Here
This blog is a mix of truth, tools, and testimony. I’ll be sharing:
✅ Personal stories from my ongoing HOA battle
✅ HOA horror stories from across the country
✅ Legal tips and homeowner resources
✅ Advocacy updates and calls to action
✅ Guidance on documenting and protecting your rights
You’re Not Alone
If your HOA has ever made you question your sanity, your safety, or your freedom — you’re not alone.
And you’re not powerless.
Welcome to Home Sweet Headache.
Let’s turn pain into power and frustration into fuel.









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